Lauren Harkins, a 34-year-old influencer known as “ItsLaurenciaga” on Instagram, has shared why she’s chosen to remain a virgin. In a candid video, Harkins debunked common assumptions about her lifestyle, such as being overly traditional, having trauma, or being socially awkward. She emphasized that her decision is personal, stating, “It just means you’re not ready.” She further explained that she is waiting for the right person and refuses to settle, describing herself as “all or nothing.”
Harkins addressed misconceptions with humor and confidence, noting that people often overanalyze her choice as if there’s something wrong. “It’s important to break those barriers of what people perceive as normal when it comes to relationships,” she said, celebrating the chance to challenge societal expectations.
Supporters flooded her comments, sharing similar stories and applauding her perspective. One follower praised her, writing, “Ain’t nothing wrong with you because of your choices.” Another shared their own experience of being older and abstinent, emphasizing the normalization of diverse relationship paths.
By sharing her story, Harkins is reframing societal narratives around virginity and self-worth, showing that personal decisions about intimacy are valid and empowering.
