A bride recently took to Reddit’s “Am I The A**hole” subreddit to seek advice after discovering her new husband has a micropenis during their honeymoon. The couple had abstained from sexual relations until marriage, as her husband claimed to be “old-fashioned.” It was only on their wedding night that she learned the truth, leading her to feel deceived and questioning if her anger was justified.
She explained in her post that they had been together for a year and had come close to fooling around, but he always stopped before it went too far. Upon learning about his condition, she felt lied to and manipulated, suspecting that his motives for abstinence were to hide his micropenis. The situation escalated when her husband found the Reddit post and threatened legal action, fearing people would identify him.
Her husband admitted he withheld the information out of fear she would leave him if she knew before the wedding, especially if their families found out. Despite feeling deceived, the bride referred to her husband as a “sweet, sweet man” and stated she wasn’t going to leave him over this issue.
The post received numerous comments, with some empathizing with her feelings of betrayal due to the lack of transparency, while others criticized the husband’s manipulation and deceit. The consensus among commenters was that honesty is crucial in a relationship, and while no one should be shamed for their body, being upfront about such matters is essential for trust.
