Debbie Nelson, Eminem’s mother, has passed away at age 69 after battling advanced lung cancer. She died on Monday in St. Joseph, Missouri. Debbie, who gave birth to Eminem at 18, had a tumultuous relationship with her son, marked by years of estrangement and public legal battles. Despite their difficulties, Eminem reportedly supported her financially in recent years, even though they had not been in direct contact.
Debbie had a complex personal history, including surviving abuse and writing a memoir in 2008 titled My Son Marshall, My Son Eminem, where she chronicled her struggles and her fractured relationship with Eminem. Their most public fallout included Debbie suing him for defamation over lyrics in The Slim Shady LP but winning only a fraction of the compensation she sought.
The relationship appeared to soften later in life. Eminem addressed their rift in his 2013 song Headlights, where he apologized for their conflict. In 2022, Debbie publicly congratulated her son on his Rock & Roll Hall of Fame induction, expressing her love and pride despite skipping the ceremony.
Debbie also had another son, Nathan Samra-Mathers, with whom Eminem was deeply involved, gaining custody of him after a troubled upbringing. Debbie’s passing closes a complicated chapter in Eminem’s life, marked by public and personal reconciliation efforts over the years.