A recent study highlighted by Dr. Reena Malik, a urologist and pelvic surgeon, explored how long sex typically lasts and how this aligns with people’s expectations. The research, which included 500 couples, focused solely on penetration duration, referred to as intra-ejaculatory latency time (IELT). It found the average length of intercourse was approximately 5.7 minutes. In contrast, men believed an ideal duration would be 16 minutes, while women expressed a preference for around 25 minutes.
Dr. Malik emphasized the importance of healthy communication between partners, noting that societal pressure and misconceptions about sex can have a detrimental impact on intimacy. She explained that the study excluded aspects like foreplay and instead defined sex strictly from initial penetration to its conclusion. She encouraged couples to discuss their expectations and preferences openly to foster a more satisfying sexual relationship.
Responses to the findings varied. Some individuals highlighted how frequency plays a significant role in determining duration, with one commenter stating that daily intimacy often results in longer encounters. Another noted how external factors, like privacy and distractions (e.g., having young children), can affect the length of time spent during intercourse.
Dr. Malik’s insights and the study findings underline that the “right” duration for sex is highly subjective and varies significantly among individuals and relationships. Open communication and understanding remain key to ensuring a fulfilling and healthy intimate life.
