Groom Spent A Year Learning Korean In Secret To Surprise His Bride And Her Family On Their Wedding Day

Groom Spent A Year Learning Korean In Secret To Surprise His Bride And Her Family On Their Wedding Day
TikTok | @bdccarpenter

Ben Carpenter, a groom from the UK, captured hearts online after surprising his Korean bride, Sohee, and her family with a wedding speech entirely in Korean. Carpenter secretly spent a year learning the language, taking lessons in private while pretending his video calls were work-related. He said he wanted to show respect to his bride’s family and address cultural concerns she had shared about dating a foreigner.

TikTok | @bdccarpenter

During the emotional speech, Carpenter expressed his gratitude for their acceptance, saying, “You welcomed me with a warm heart. Thanks to all of you, we’ve made it this far.” His bride and her family were visibly moved, with Sohee tearing up and her parents warmly embracing him afterward.

@bdccarpenter

For nearly a year, I have been keeping a big secret from my wife, until our wedding day. I kept sneaking off for 30 minutes at a time for video calls she didn’t know about, or pretending they were for work when they weren’t. In bed I would often put one headphone in so she couldn’t hear what I was doing, and turning my screen away so she couldn’t see either. I set myself a goal of learning just a teeny tiny bit of Korean as a show of respect to her and her family on our wedding day. I wasn’t originally planning on sharing this video from a couple of months ago, because I try to make social media about posting educational content for you all. But, it seems silly not to share one of the most important days of my life. So, here is my full wedding speech, for any of you who are interested. ?? #wedding #weddingtiktok #groom #speech #weddingday #bride #korean #korea

? original sound – Ben Carpenter

Carpenter shared how he sneaked 30-minute lessons and practiced in bed with one headphone, hiding his progress from his wife. The heartfelt gesture resonated widely on TikTok, where he described the effort as a small token of respect for his wife and her culture.

The viral moment has inspired many to embrace new challenges in their relationships, with viewers commending Carpenter for his dedication and thoughtfulness. His story serves as a reminder of the power of love and effort in bridging cultural differences.