Research by Date Psychology has revealed the hobby that women find most unattractive in men—being involved in the “manosphere.” The manosphere refers to a collection of online communities, including forums and podcasts, that claim to promote masculinity but are often criticized for misogynistic content. The survey found that women saw involvement in these spaces as an immediate turn-off due to the extreme views and negative attitudes towards women often expressed there.
In the study, women expressed that they preferred hobbies that showed creativity, thoughtfulness, and adventurousness. Activities like reading, cooking, learning new languages, or playing musical instruments were rated among the most attractive. In contrast, “nerdy pursuits” like an obsession with cryptocurrency or arguing on the internet were viewed less favorably, as were interests like indulging in certain kinds of explicit content.
The research underscores the idea that while it’s good to have hobbies, certain interests can reflect negatively in a romantic context. One major takeaway is that hobbies should primarily be about personal joy, not changing oneself to appear more attractive to others. The study highlighted how the underlying message of some hobbies can play a significant role in shaping perceptions.
Ultimately, the report advised men to steer clear of spaces that harbor toxic ideologies, emphasizing that doing so is beneficial not just for dating, but for life in general. The findings offer insights into how hobbies can impact relationships, influencing how people perceive one another based on their interests and activities.
