Sex expert Tracey Cox has revealed that one of the biggest turn-offs for women in long-term relationships is when their partners stop kissing during sex. According to Cox, this often happens around six months into a relationship, and it’s a mistake that can dampen the sexual spark. In an article for the Daily Mail, she emphasized that kissing is crucial for building and maintaining intimacy, likening it to the “accelerator pedal” of sexual encounters. Without it, she warns, women may feel disconnected and turned off, leading to a decline in sexual satisfaction.
Cox’s advice is backed by research from the State University of New York, which found that women place a significant emphasis on kissing as a way to assess and maintain the quality of their relationships. The study, which surveyed over 1,000 students, revealed that while women see kissing as essential for intimacy and relationship bonding, men tend to view it as a means to increase the likelihood of sex. This difference in perspective can lead to misunderstandings and unmet needs in long-term relationships, particularly if men reduce their kissing over time.
The importance of kissing in relationships is further highlighted by Dr. Glenn Wilson from London’s Institute of Psychiatry, who explained that kissing serves as a bonding and testing mechanism. Women, in particular, use it to gauge their partner’s commitment and the overall health of the relationship. This evolutionary perspective suggests that while both sexes benefit from kissing, women are more likely to use it as a tool to ensure their partner’s fidelity and to maintain a strong emotional connection.
For couples looking to reignite their intimacy, Cox’s advice is simple: don’t underestimate the power of a good kiss. Incorporating kissing into sexual encounters can help maintain the emotional and physical connection that is crucial for a satisfying long-term relationship. So, as Cox puts it, just remember to “kiss the girl” and keep the romance alive.
