A new relationship trend called “symbiosexuality” is gaining attention for its unique perspective on attraction. Symbiosexuality refers to an individual being attracted not just to a person but to the dynamic energy and synergy between an already established couple. This concept challenges traditional views of attraction, focusing on the multidimensional power shared between people in relationships rather than just a one-to-one connection.
Sally W. Johnston, an adjunct professor of anthropology and sociology at Seattle University, explored this phenomenon in a study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior. The research analyzed data from 373 participants, revealing that many people experience a strong and pervasive attraction to this “third force” within relationships. Johnston’s study suggests that symbiosexual attraction is more common and significant than previously thought, leading her to argue for a reevaluation of human attraction beyond traditional norms.
The concept emerged from Johnston’s research into the treatment of “unicorns” in polyamorous communities—individuals who join existing couples for sexual activities without engaging in the emotional aspects of the relationship. While these relationships can have sexual benefits, Johnston found that unicorns are often objectified and ostracized, which her study corroborates. She noted that symbiosexual attraction, often motivating these interactions, is frequently misunderstood and stigmatized within these communities.
Johnston’s findings urge a rethinking of how we understand human attraction and desire, pushing the boundaries beyond conventional monogamous or one-to-one relationship frameworks. Her study sheds light on the complexity of human sexual and romantic dynamics, highlighting the need for broader acceptance and understanding of diverse relationship structures.
