Emma Flint recently came out as abrosexual, a term she discovered just two years ago, after spending 30 years trying to understand her fluctuating sexual orientation. Abrosexuality involves experiencing different levels of sexual or romantic attraction over time, with individuals possibly shifting from being attracted to one gender to having no attraction at all within varying periods. For Flint, this newfound identity allowed her to embrace her fluid sexuality, which she previously struggled to define.
However, Flint’s journey to acceptance wasn’t easy, as she encountered skepticism and confusion from others. A friend’s response, questioning whether abrosexuality was even a real label, highlighted the challenges Flint faced in explaining her identity to those unfamiliar with the term. Despite some unsupportive reactions, Flint remained resolute in her identity, emphasizing the importance of respectful listening and understanding.
Flint acknowledged that while many of her friends and family have been supportive, she still encounters dismissive comments, such as being told she’s “just confused” or that she should identify as bisexual instead. These interactions have made it clear to her that societal understanding of abrosexuality is limited, but Flint is determined not to be confined by others’ perceptions. She stresses that personal growth and self-discovery are ongoing processes that should be respected.
Looking to the future, Flint hopes that abrosexuality will become a recognized and normalized identity, free from the stigma of being seen as a trend or phase. She is no longer nervous about her sexuality, as it now makes sense to her, and she believes that this self-acceptance is what truly matters in the end.
